Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Missing Your Love?


Believe or not, but we always run away from love so that we don’t miss it. Yet we miss and we fail in loving someone truly. As time is taking her far from our eyes and it never fails.
There is no interesting topic or story telling other than ‘Love’ in this world. Instead of writing thesis to be a Dr. or writing an autobiography without recipe of love, I love to write something on love. And every time I will say – I don’t know what it means.

Love shortens distance between two person’s emotions. Love gets two persons near. It looks better in statements. Well we know the reality. However I believe it is true if we put persons first and love later.

My friend loves his mother too much. However he admits that he loves much when he is far from her. You miss and you know its value. Anyway it is a golden rule. We understand value only if we miss or we don’t have. Isn’t it?

Infatuation, pash and crush may be nearest words in dictionary but in reality it differs. We never know how infatuation is turning to the morning’s first ray from alone midnight. If you forget then it remains night forever. If you miss it you wait till the first ray of love. What am I saying? Let time tell you whether you are in love or crush - especially for your young age love.

Our emotional quotient is always powerful and remains ahead than our intelligence quotient. Can a rich man marry a lower class girl who just appeared in front of him first time selling a basket? We don’t believe in reality. But many times we do ourselves. Love has no identification. It doesn’t know any status. I do, as I like. Reason? May be anything. Why? It is emotion. Any emotion has no intelligence. If you have any reason for love then it is infatuation or crush. My thinking may differ with your thinking. But at some stage we will reach to same destination with different thinking saying love has no definition.

It is better to expect any harsh reality in love rather drunk nights. I am afraid to do that because she may reject. No! I can’t love that simple man! I dream about … but then how it happened. It’s not love! As many times you say this thing – you remain far from reality. A truth whom nobody can reject.

It happens at any point in our life. So what if I don’t love in young age. College love is most vague love. You meet accidentally. Or she might be your classmate. You like a company. You enjoy rides and meet frequently. You watch movies with her as you did in childhood with your family. Now just character is changing. As your grow and reach to age of marriage, you agree to marry. I don’t know why the actors of most of love stories described of young age. We as a society don’t accept love in other age.

I just sent a message to my friend that she is just like a girl whom I dream. Well I like her nature. I like how she behaves. Because she is like someone who is very near to my heart – say my sister. She put a dot to friendship itself. However I don’t feel bad. If she doesn’t get my points then I really missed nothing.

However it happens with culture too. Accepting love in front of elders or a girl is like talking about hell. People start hating you sometimes if you talk about love frequently. And that’s why I find disturbance in married life. I may wrong in concluding any statement over here. But fact remains there. Until you like – you cant live.

Believe or not, but we always run away from love so that we don’t miss it. Yet we miss and we fail in loving someone truly. As time is taking her far from our eyes and that never fails.