Well, don't give up hope just yet! There are plenty of ways to show your affection that many people overlook. It's these sweet nothings that show a lover that you truly care. Here are some easily overlooked sweet nothings that you can try without spending a penny:
Back rubs, shoulder rubs, and massages
There is nothing quite like a good back rub! It feels good, plus your lover will be more than happy to be on the receiving end. It's also a great way to get closer physically.
Coupons
Do you remember back when you were in elementary school and as a present for Mother's Day you gave your mother coupons that promised you'd do the dishes or clean the living room? This was something we did in my elementary classes as a nice, free way to say "I love and appreciate you". It's a great way to show your love and appreciation for your significant other as well. Make a card and a bunch of coupons for "one free back rub" or a "complimentary car wash". More than likely they'll think it's cute!
Make something
Do you have a special talent or skill? Let's say you can play the guitar. Why not write a song for the one you love? If you can sew, make them something like a blanket. If you knit or crochet, make them a scarf. The supplies might cost you a little money if you don't already have them, but it'll be well worth it in the end.
Creativity with words
If Shakespeare had started his sonnets with, "Roses are red, violets are blue..." people may have suspected he didn't really care much for the person he was writing about. Find a way to say "I love you" without saying "I love you". Phrases like, "I adore you," or "You mean the world to me," say the same thing and can even have more impact in the heart of the other. For example, my boyfriend had a hard time saying those three words, so instead he would say "I appreciate you." I knew what he meant, and through such words and actions I knew he loved me without having to hear those three little words.
Pre-owned gift
Do you have something that you cherish? Whether it's a stuffed animal from childhood or a favorite book, giving that item to your significant other shows that you are entrusting them with something near and dear to you. It might be difficult to part with that item, but if you truly love the other person you can be sure it's in good hands.
Love need not be merely a phrase you say. It's something you show through action more than anything. Showing another how much you care rather than saying it can have an even deeper impact than words alone. If you show you are making a genuine effort to be romantic and to show you care, it'll mean everything to the one you love. Don't be afraid to really show how much you care. It can strengthen your relationship and make that bond the two of you share last for life!
